Issue # 26  - April 2006

Welcome to the LargeInCharge Magazine

In this Issue of L.I.C.

 

Feature of the Month -  Crystal Senter Brown

 

Cover Model of the Month - Karen Devereaux - April Cover Model

 

Raqui's Spot - Big Women are we a Fetish?

 

Russell's Review - Comedian Carlos Mencia

 

Jay's Spot - BBW Artist JNESS

 

Papi's Peace - I am Fat

 

Good 4 U Food - Samurai Swordfish by Xander

 

Guest Spot - Chasing Dreams by Vicki Logan

 

Fashion Furious - Fashion Finds from our readers.  Submit your Find.

 

Product of the Month -  Products for People of Size

 

Ask Raqui - Send Raqui your questions.  Get some advice from one Big person to another.

 

Events & Pictures - L.I.C. Delivers Info. on the hottest BBW events, See what we are doing in the community.

 

LargeInChargeDating - Dating for the Large People who are going to be in Charge of their Love Lives!

 

LargeInCharge Friends - The Place for Big People to make Friends and maybe MUCH MORE!

 

Crystal Senter Brown

Singer/Poet

 
Crystal Senter Brown

     Smooth, not exactly soft, real but not harsh.  The sound of this lady had me actually lay back to listen.  Almost water like in the vibe.

Maybe I am a little bias, in one of her poetic vibrations I heard LARGE IN CHARGE. Yet I have never met this woman and she has never met me.  But it is a oneness that larger framed women have.  We read and live each others thoughts.

She looks like all women, sounds like all women, feels and expresses herself for all Larger Framed women.  She embodies us and expresses for us.

She is Crystal - Delicate as, shining brightly as, captivating as, CRYSTAL!   - Raqui

www.crystalsenterbrown.com

                                   

Interview with Crystal Senter Brown

LargeInCharge.com: What is your name (Real and Stage)?

Crystal Senter Brown, same as stage.

 

LargeInCharge.com: Where are you from and what is your current Location?

Morristown, TN- But I live in Chicopee, MA now and have for the past 11 years

 

LargeInCharge.com: Do you consider yourself a BBW or a SSBBW?

BBW.  I am happily married to Corey, we’re celebrating our 6th anniversary in Oct.

 

LargeInCharge.com: If your a person of size, were you a child and teen of size; or did you gain as an adult?

I gained 100 pounds with my pregnancy- I was actually a cheerleader from age 6- 18!

 

LargeInCharge.com: If your a person of size, Do you find acceptance among your family and friends?

Always.  They love me for who I am...size 22 and all!  My dad is a bass player, preacher and funeral home director and my Mom is an artist www.janicetreecesenter.com 

 

LargeInCharge.com: Have you always shown an interest in writing and performing?

I've been performing since I was 6 years old.

 

LargeInCharge.com: How old were you when you began to write and what did you write?

I was 10 when I started writing poetry...it was because my Mom exposed me to poetry at a young age and I just loved it!

 

LargeInCharge.com: How old were you began to perform your work?

I performed poems by Langston Hughes and Maya Angelou when I was 6.  I performed my OWN poetry at age 20 at Soul Café in Springfield, MA

 

LargeInCharge.com: If your a person of size, Do you incorporate Size material in your writing and performances?

Absolutely!  If you visit my site at www.crystalsenterbrown.com you can download my spoken word piece "Chunk" Free!  I also have a great song called Large and Lovely on my new cd MOJO.  Big girls everywhere LOVE THAT SONG!

 

LargeInCharge.com: Was it easy or hard to start performing your work?

Easy as pie (pun intended!)  I have always had exceptional confidence, thanks to my mother Janice Treece Senter and I think that shows in my performances.  Even skinny girls love my work!

 

LargeInCharge.com: When did you reach professional status; how old were you and how long had you been performing?

I was 26 when I really started to notice that people recognized me and I was starting to book more shows...I released my 1st acapella cd "Bees are admired" when I was 26.

 

LargeInCharge.com: How did you start with performing, do you only perform your own work or do you also perform the work of others?

I actually prefer to perform with a band- a great group from Springfield, MA.  Jarreau Pitts on keys (he actually produced my MOJO cd), Trevor Pitts on drums and Heshima on bass.  All three played on my Easybreezybeautifulcoloredgirl cd.

 

LargeInCharge.com: Do you ever perform with others?

Yes, the band whenever I can.. and I love doing all female showcases!

 

LargeInCharge.com: Tell us which writers and poets you admire?

Lucille Clifton, Maya Angelou, Nikki Giovanni, Wally Lamb,

 

LargeInCharge.com: What inspires you the most when you’re writing and performing?

Seeing people in the audience having an "AHA!" moment as if to say "Hey I wear a size 22 too!  Hey I've had a man cheat on me!  Hey, I'm in LOVE, and my man is GREAT!" all of the above...and actually being able to see young girls who never thought they could do what I do- and it inspires them to try

 

LargeInCharge.com: If your a person of size, Is it harder to get into the business because of size?

I think it can be if you dont have confidence...you dont have to always focus on being a big girl- focus on being a GOOD PERFORMER..if you have talent, nothing else will matter.

 

LargeInCharge.com: If your a person of size, How does your size help or not help you communicate to your audience?

My size helps tremendously.  Most of the girls at my show are a size 14 or larger, and they are sick and tired of seeing nothing but skinny girls on tv, videos, on stage, etc,  They're happy to see someone of size doin her thing!

 

LargeInCharge.com: Who is your manager?

Joe Senter in Nashville, TN (he's also my brother)

 

LargeInCharge.com: Do you work for an agency?

No but I have my own publishing company called "Senterbrown Publishing".  Ive published a childrens book and I'm currently working on publishing a book of collected poems written by teen girls.

 

LargeInCharge.com: How can someone book you for a show or appearance?

They can email bookings@crystalsenterbrown.com or call 413-594-5949

 

LargeInCharge.com: Do you have a website?

 

LargeInCharge.com: Tell us about some of the places you have performed at?

UMASS, Amherst College, Women Who Jam www.womenwhojam.com, Jimmy's Uptown Cafe (NYC), Cadavez (DC), Savannahs (Springfield, MA), Gumbolive www.gumbolive.com, Ladyfest East (Brooklyn), NABFEME Music conference (Canada),

 

LargeInCharge.com: Tell us if you have been featured in any magazines or on any shows?

 One of my poems was featured in VIBE magazine, and my cd has been reviewed on Just Soul.net, and many other online magazines.  I was one of 12 girls chosen for the Unsigned Magazine Compilation CD.

 

LargeInCharge.com: How did you feel the first time you performed; what did you perform?

I was 6.  There were 3,000 people there. I was dressed in an African outfit, and no shoes.  I performed “The Negro Mother” by Langston Hughes.  We took a chartered bus to get to the event, and I felt like a star!

 

LargeInCharge.com: What would you say to other inspiring writers and performers?

1.     Write everyday.  Even if its only 1 line, keep writing  Most of us think we dont have time, but     everyone has 10 minutes to write. 

2.      Support other performers/ writers in your area.  Go to open mics, see what other folks are doing.

3.      If you are part of a show, dont leave after your performance.  That is just rude.

4.      Find your feature and play it up.  For me its my hair and my breasts.  SO at every show you'll see lots of cleavage and lots of hair!  :-)

 

 

LargeInCharge.com: What should a new comer to the scene do to get a following?

1.      Perform at local functions. Dont expect to be paid if you're just starting out.

2.     Try to get one of your songs played on the local radio.

3.     Don’t have a big ego- there is ALWAYS someone who may be better than you…J

 

LargeInCharge.com: Where will you be appearing next?

 My calender is on www.crystalsenterbrown.com but I always appear at Gumbo Live on the 3rd Friday of each month www.gumbolive.com.  I have been nominated for an Urban Music Award and I will be at the awards ceremony on April 15 at the Berklee School of Music in Boston.

 

LargeInCharge.com: What are your future goals?

I’d like to have my own talk show- or entertainment show.  I’d also like to try my hand at radio. I want to retire at 45 and open a performance school in my hometown.  I’d also like to see the world and spend some time in Venice. 

 

LargeInCharge.com: Give us one word that you can say best represents your work?

Real

 

LargeInCharge.com: How much have you evolved as a writer and performer since those early days as a youth?

I know who I am now, I don’t try to be anyone else.  I don’t try to please everyone either.  I perform free at events for causes I am passionate about such as Diabetes, Cancer, and teen girls.  I write from my heart and I write for women everywhere from a size 4 – 44.  I believe you should love who you are!

 

LargeInCharge.com: How can the readers at www.largeincharge.com help support you?

Visit my site www.crystalsenterbrown.com, Support me by purchasing my cd MOJO, come out to some of my shows.  Send me an email anytime! crystal@crystalsenterbrown.com

 
 

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Cover Model of the Month

April 2006 Cover Model

Karen Devereaux

 

Interview with Karen Devereaux

LargeInCharge.com: What is your name? 

 

My name is Karen Devereaux and let me begin by saying that I am honored to have been chosen as a cover model.  With this interview, I hope to provide and inside look into my life as a woman of color, a plus size model and social activist against size discrimination.

 

LargeInCharge.com: Where are you from and what is your current Location?

 

I’m originally from Chicago—a city rich with diversity and renowned for its architectural beauty.  I grew up in the Grand Boulevard Community which was home to many great musical legends.  About two years ago, I relocated to Atlanta.  Although Chicago is and always will be one of my most favorite cities, I longed for an opportunity to branch out and to further explore my artistic talents.  Over the years, Atlanta has made great strides and continues to propel itself to bigger and better things.  In fact, someone once described Atlanta to me as the “Hollywood of the South”.

 

LargeInCharge.com: Can you give us some information about yourself (Age, Height, Size, Nationality, Marital Status, Children, etc.)?

 

In terms physical characteristics, I am 5’10”, African-American and Hispanic and a dress size 26/28.  I am also single with no children.  In recent months, I have begun to take better care of myself.  I am attempting to eat healthier, I’m walking a bit more and I’ve developed an exercise regime—working to create a healthier me.  Many may not realize it, but heart disease is the number one killer of women; and when you think about it, that’s very alarming.  I plan to stay around for a very long time, so developing a healthier lifestyle is definitely placing me on the right track.

 

LargeInCharge.com: Were you a big child, or did you gain weight later in life?

 

I’ve been plus size my entire life.  In the beginning, it was very difficult to deal with.  I was always a very bright child with a thirst for knowledge, however, when you don’t fit into a particular mold (one created by society), people can be very cruel.  I was very self-conscious as a child.  I never doubted myself intellectually; however I always second-guessed myself physically.   After a while, the comments didn’t bother as much because I threw myself into my studies.  Expressing myself creatively (whether through writing, music etc.), was always an escape for me.  Today, I’m more confident and self assured.

 

LargeInCharge.com: What made you decide to enter the LargeInCharge model search?

 

Honestly, I really related to the name of the organization: LARGE IN CHARGE!  Yes, I am a large woman, and there’s no denying that.  But, I am also in charge as well.  I live a great life, I travel extensively around the world and I am surrounded by positive and supportive people that share many of the same ideals that I do. 

 

Additionally, I entered the model search because I applaud the organization on a job well done.  I think there should be more exposure to the plus size community.  Industry leaders are beginning to realize that there is a great deal of talent in our community.  They’ve begun to realize that beauty, intelligence and talent defies any dress or pants size.  True, it’s long overdue, but it’s better late than never.

 

LargeInCharge.com: Do you have any experience in modeling? 

 

 If so tell us about what you have done.  Actually, I do.  I began modeling in my late teens when still residing in Chicago.  As I began develop more physically, the assignments came in less and less.  I’ve done hair shows, spokes modeling, fashion shows, pageants…you name, I’ve done it.  I’m always looking for ways of reinventing myself and honing my craft.  Ultimately, I’m looking to sign with an agent so hopefully that will transpire in the near future.

 

LargeInCharge.com: It takes a lot of confidence to model...  What has given you the confidence you have?

 

My confidence, first and foremost, comes from my Lord, Jesus Christ.  I know that I am nothing without him.  He has truly given me the courage to do and be the very best because I know that I deserve the very best.  I’ll be the first to admit, whenever I take part in something new, I’m a bag of nerves!!  I just really have to pray that I am giving the client what he wants while staying true to myself.  After that, I just relax and do what I know I’m capable of doing.  And this type of approach extends to whatever I’m doing because you never get a second chance to make a first impression.

 

LargeInCharge.com: Did you find it a hard journey to be accepted for your size?

 

Initially, yes.  Now, I am definitely more confident about who I am—and it took years of hard work to get there.  I’m looking forward to the day when my size will no longer be an issue.  It goes back to what Dr. King said; judge me on the content of my character, not based on the color of my skin or what I look like for that matter.  I think as I have gained a bit more exposure, I have broken down some of the stereotypical barriers that surround our community.  And I face those stereotypes and challenges head on. 

 

LargeInCharge.com: Do you find acceptance among your family and friends

 

Absolutely!  My friends and family accept me for who I am and love me unconditionally.  There biggest concern is to remain as healthy as positive because of the number of risks associated with be larger than average.  Thus far, I have not had any serious medical conditions.  I don’t take that for granted because things can change at any point.  But, again they are very supportive.

 

LargeInCharge.com: What would you say inspires you most in life?

 

I am inspired by so many people that it’s difficult to pin point any one particular person.  For one, I’m constantly inspired by people that overcome adversity.  I’m inspired by people that have gone against the grain, in an effort of making a change.  I’m inspired by the people that tell me I’m wasting my time.  I’m inspired by those that believe in me and support my efforts.  For me, inspiration is something that comes from a number of avenues—whether directly or indirectly.  But, no matter where it comes from or in what form, I always embrace it with open arms and use it as fuel to inspire others.

 

LargeInCharge.com: What is your primary job?

 

Currently, I work as an Insurance Underwriter for a great firm in Atlanta.  I’ve been with the organization a little more than a year and I’m enjoying every minute of it.  I work with a great group of professionals and for an awesome manager, Carol Rodgers. 

 

Carol understands my mission in the industry and supports me in any and every way that she can.  I have never worked for someone as supportive and as flexible as she is.  Without her flexibility, I would have missed out on a number of opportunities.  So Carol, if I have not thanked you enough, please allow me to thank you publicly, because you truly are a diamond in the rough!

 

 

LargeInCharge.com: How did you get into this line of work?

 

That’s a great question!  Ironically, I came into the industry with no prior insurance experience.  I have never had automobile insurance, a vehicle, a license nor do I know how to drive.  Most people would have slammed the door in my face but, Carol saw below the surface.  She saw that I had worked in the service industry, as a manager, for more than a decade—and that coupled with my desire to give the organization 100% of myself; warranted an invitation to join the firm. 

 

Today, I am doing quite well.  I am well respected and I have received multiple commendations for being productive, proactive, innovative, and for exceeding the standards set forth by the organization.  I am looking forward to taking on additional responsibilities as I cultivate a better understanding of the industry as a whole.

 

 

LargeInCharge.com: Do you find acceptance in the work force?

 

Again, absolutely!  In fact, it has never been an issue in the work force.  It’s one of the few places that encourages you to utilize your talents and rewards you for them.  If only the fashion industry could take on that approach, plus size models would be held in a much higher regard.

 

LargeInCharge.com: What changes do you believe should take place for Large People in the work force?

 

Well, outside of the obvious (which is providing everyone with the same level of respect and opportunities) I think employers should offer seating of various sizes.  I know that may sound a bit out of the ordinary, but if you are a full figured person then you know exactly where I’m coming from. 

 

There’s nothing more uncomfortable than trying to sit eight hours in a chair that was ergonomically not built for a larger frame.  Corporations should be a bit more sensitive to this issue because we are not all a size 10.  Yes, it would cost a few pennies more to have these chairs in stock, but it can prevent embarrassing situations for full figured people, which could otherwise be avoided. 

 

LargeInCharge.com: Where do you regular shop for your clothing?  Tell us some of the places you buy your clothes from.

 

Honestly, because I don’t drive, most of my shopping is done online.  The invention of the internet has been a lifesaver for me.  I can find what I want, when and I want while being selective about the items I choose to purchase.  My computer and I have a wonderful working relationship!

 

Some of my favorite stores are Lane Bryant, Ashley Stewart, The Avenue, Jessica London (catalog) and Roamans (catalog) just to name a few.  I truly am a shopaholic!  In fact, I purchase something almost EVERY day!!  Additionally, I seek out EBAY on a daily basis.  I have found so many great finds there you wouldn’t believe it.  My friends have nicknamed me Miss EBAY because I’m always on their site.  You guys should really check it out.  You’ll be amazed at all the treasures you’ll find!

 

LargeInCharge.com: What changes do you think will happen if plus sized modeling for men and women were to expand?

 

I think it would be great to see.  I think that if plus size modeling for men and women became more of a social norm, people will begin to accept themselves more because they are seeing a more accurate reflection of themselves.  People will no longer feel compelled to subject themselves to extreme dieting measures but in turn will realistically work toward creating a healthier, fuller-figured individual.  It truly would be a great thing!

 

LargeInCharge.com: Look at Size acceptance five years ago... look at size acceptance now.  What changes do you see?

 

I think socially we have made some strides for the better, be we are a long way from hitting the mark.  Unfortunately, we are all living in a society where people are image conscious and perfection driven.  And although I do not condone this type of thinking, it is what it is. 

 

I think the least people can do is accept the fact that there are differences and work toward embracing those difference positively.  Despite our size, we are human beings with the same feelings and emotions.  We are not asking for special privileges; however we are demanding that we be treated with respect and as equals.  We only want to be treated humanely—and that doesn’t cost anything.

 

LargeInCharge.com: What changes do you think will happen five years from now with size acceptance?

 

That’s very difficult to answer.  I hope that we have evolved into a more diversified community.  I’m waiting for the day when I’ll see a full figured woman (larger than a size 16) on the covers of Harper’s Bazaar, Vogue, Elle, etc.  Will we ever see the likes of that day?  Maybe not in my lifetime, but we can always hope for the best.

 

LargeInCharge.com: Tell us about your goals as far as modeling and other interests.

 

Although I truly do love the warmth and southern hospitality that Atlanta has to offer, I realize that a move is inevitable.  Currently, I have my sights set on L.A. as I have made a few contacts there.  Ultimately, I am looking to go main stream and elevate to a point where I am a household name.  I realize that I’m years away from that point, however the beginning a great journey begins with one step.  This year has truly been that first step and I couldn’t be happier!

 

Thus far, 2006 has gotten off to a great start.  I’ve done a voice over for an English as a second language audio program, worked as an extra for an upcoming show coming out this fall on the TLC Network and worked with a great photographer while building my portfolio. Ultimately, I hoping to merge more into acting because it has always been a passion of mine. 

 

Additionally, I really want to work with several charitable organizations to give of my self as much as I can.  I truly enjoy working with children and teens.  They’re in such a formidable stage where they need as much encouragement and positive reinforcement as possible.  I think it’s our responsibility as adults to provide that support because it truly takes a village to raise a child. 

 

 

LargeInCharge.com: Give us a sentence that inspires you.

 

Each one, reach one.  That statement says it all so what more can I say?

 

LargeInCharge.com: What advice would you give to other people of size who want to model?

 

Breaking into the modeling industry is extremely difficult.  There are tons of beautiful girls out there all vying for the same opportunity.  So, you have to truly look inward and ask yourself is this something you really want to do--because it’s not all it’s cracked up to be.

 

If you’re sure that modeling is for you, then the first step is to do your research.  There are a number of great sites out there that will provide you with some sound advice about the industry.  Also, step back and assess yourself.  Do you know what your strong points are…your weaknesses?  What will set you apart from other girls in the industry?  Are you abreast of the ever change trends?  There are so many things to consider so really getting out there, doing your research and being prepared is the one of the best tools you’ll ever have.   

 

Additionally, I don’t recommend people spending a great deal of money on classes, headshots, composite/zed cards, etc.  If someone is asking you to pay them upfront to represent you, then nine times out of ten they are not reputable!  Again, they are not reputable!  Do your research and find an agency that has your best interest at heart.  When you make money, the make money so they will always do their best to find you work.  Just keep in mind, they only provide the leads; it’s up to you to land the assignment.

 

LargeInCharge.com: What plus size figure do you admire?

 

I must say that I admire comedienne Monique the most.  I applaud her for being the first person to host and create a national, televised Plus Size Pageant.  I admire Monique because she does not conform to industry standards and does not apologize for being FABULOUS AND THICK!  Most importantly, she has provided the Plus Size Community with an opportunity to be heard—giving us a voice on broader scale. 

Monique’s success has allowed her to reach audiences, otherwise unreachable, and forced them to take notice of the plus size community.  She has helped many plus size women to realize just how beautiful they truly are—and repairing someone’s self-esteem is one of the greatest gifts you could ever give to them.  Monique truly is an inspiration and I would love to work with her.  So, if anyone can make this happen please contact me ASAP! 

 

LargeInCharge.com: Describe yourself with one word.

 

INSPIRATIONAL.  My goal in life is to make a difference and to live my life by example.  In doing so, I hope to inspire someone else to take a stand and make a difference as well.  I want to inspire people to do their very best and to be the very best.  If sharing my story inspires just one person, then I have made a difference—and that, first and foremost is my goal.

 

Again, Congratulations Karen we are please to have you as a member of the LargeInCharge Cover Model Family!

 

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Raqui's Spot

This month's subject:

Big Women are we a Fetish?

 

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Big Women are we a Fetish?

 

     In this day and age dating someone of size is often categorized as a fetish.  Someone might say they have a fetish for big butts, breast, bodies, bellies or what have you.  Other people will say,

 

"Oh he has a fetish for big girls".

 

     When did dating a big person become a fetish? What does fetish mean?

 

Fetish:

  • An object that is believed to have magical or spiritual powers, especially such an object associated with animistic or shamanistic religious practices.

  • An object of unreasonably excessive attention or reverence.

  • Something, such as a material object or a nonsexual part of the body, that arouses sexual desire and may become necessary for sexual gratification.

  • An abnormally obsessive preoccupation or attachment; a fixation.

  • An inanimate object or nonsexual body part that is regarded as endowed with magic or erotic qualities.

     I have a problem with some of these words.  Words like object, unreasonably, abnormally, inanimate object, nonsexual body part.  

 

     I may be a big person, but my body is not an object or unreasonable.  I may be bigger than most of the women in American, or even the world, and no I might not be what society had decided is normal.  But I am not ABNORMAL as if I were an alien.  As if I was defective, like an abnormal heart.  Big women are quite normal since we are now outnumbering the so called average, normal, ideal body type.   We are women with big bodies, with added fat, but not ABNORMAL. 

 

     Our bodies are not inanimate objects, we are living breathing and very much alive.  No matter what some may say, our bodies are very sexual.  Just because your fat doesn't mean your body parts are nonsexual.  We are not repulsive.  But are we a fetish?

 

     Usually when one thinks of fetish we think of leather, latex, shoes, spankings or even certain body parts. We think of some type of adult sensual or sexual encounter, domination even.  We usually think of things that are not considered average in someone's sexual life.

 

     I am wondering who set the standard of what is normal or average.  Since those of us who are fat are considered not normal, those who love and admire our bodies must have a fetish to want to be with us.  Again it is society stating that those of us who are big in body are so undesirable and abnormal we are considered a fetish.  No normal thinking person can look at us and see a sexy, beautiful, plump person.  Our rolls are seen as degusting flab, instead of secret valley's in which our naturally sweet sent lays, waiting for an eager nose to find.  Waiting for an eager hand to hold.

 

     But I sit here again and read more into the meaning of Fetish.  I see magical, spiritual, powers, reverence,  arouses sexual desire, necessary for sexual gratification.  I see more interesting words like; attachment, regarded, endowed with magic or erotic qualities.  Yes maybe this sounds like me!

 

     In times of old the largest women were seen as the mothers of the people.  Seen as spiritual life givers.  The bigger their bodies the more status the woman held, and so did her mate.  We were worshiped and revered.  Wide hips swaying were erotic enough to make men fall to there knees and provoke havoc.  Yes our bodies arouse sexual desire and most men who love big women cannot see themselves with anything less.  Yes for those who loves us it is NECESSARY to have the extra fat and bouncy goodness our frames hold.   So do these things make us a fetish?

 

     My belief is that a fetish is something a person may personally find weird.  Something they don't consider normal.  When you really think about it, if there are thousands of people out there who like the same exact thing, it doesn't sound very weird.  Sounds pretty normal to me.  But it is the mind of the person that tells them, this is different it is my fetish.

 

     I don't believe a type of person can be a fetish.  I believe if you feel you need to hide what you like from others.  Then it might be a fetish to you.

 

     A man who loves big women and dates, marries, lives with, and loves a big woman.  Wouldn't say, I have a fetish for big women.  That is his normal life.  It is a preference.  But a man who is ashamed of liking big women and hides it. Might spend hours, days and lots of money on the net looking at fat porn or related sites.  Meeting and hiding his fat girl friends from his family and associates. He wouldn't be able to say in public, "I like those big girls". That would be a fetish, when you have to lie and hide your inner desires.

 

    So are big women a fetish?  Well yes, no, and maybe.  We can be a fetish just like anyone else.  You can have a fetish for blondes, red heads, skinny girls with big boobs and no buts.  You can like teeny tiny women or ones that are so big they are immobile, Black, White, Asian, or Spanish.  The fetish is not in the look feel or weight of the woman.  It doesn't matter what you like or who you like.  A fetish is in the feelings behind the desire.  Weather you are out in the open or hiding in secret.  So when someone asks me if I consider myself a fetish.  I look at them and say.  It is all in the eyes of the beholder.  It is in the mind of the man. 

 

Raqui

 

ANNOUNCEMENT Raqui is the Spotlight for April in www.BBWPress.com  she also has wrote an article for BBW Press for the month of April 2006 called (The Plus Sized Bride)

 
 

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     My mission here at Large In Charge is to finally answer those questions that we may never even realize to ask. Characters that are often portrayed in movies, shows, cartoons, and everything else that portray anything relating to the BBW /BHM community. You ever wonder why there are no big people in the matrix. I mean what, No body eats there? They can't blame it the food. Or why we're always under some type of scrutiny whether we realize it or not. I'm here to finalize all answers and give you nothing but a honest accurate opinion about characters portrayed in such entities.

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Comedian Carlos Mencia

                     

The Comedian Carlos Mencia: 

     Ahhhhh Carlos Mencia, Star of  the hit show “Mind of Mencia” which currently air's on Comedy Central. Come to think of it. The show can be pretty touchy if your easily offended by stereotypical remarks. Since Mencia is a big guy. I just had to take the opportunity to review this hilarious comedian.

     Mencia touches everything from Gender orientation to Mexicans crossing the border. This guy will say something about anything and not think twice. Think of this, Bush wants to put up a wall to keep the immigrants out of the country, Now who is going to build it. I cannot answer that question but Carlos Mencia can and will.

     During his show, he has a lot of skits pertaining to stereotypical views, such as midgets, transgender, men, women, race, rich, poor, fat, skinny, and more. This show will have you laughing your ass off. And then you’ll be wondering what else he is going to say next, what race is he going to target next. Personally I think he is a genius when it comes to saying exactly what he thinks. And without directly attacking or offending any type of stereotypes or race.

     Now here comes the question. Is he a Big Plus or Big Minus for the BBW / BHM Community. To many people it will depend on how you take to all of his jokes and gestures. I think that he is a big plus for BBW / BHM Community for the simple fact that he does not use big people as targets for his ammunition. I mean many things that he do say. Is technically correct in many aspects. Its just that many people will not say it in public. However Mencia will say just about anything about everything. He do make some very interesting points that will just have you say. “you know that is true, I never thought about that” So everyone check out his show, and see what I’m talking about.

If you had a bad day. He’ll cheer you up!..  As Carlos would say "Stop acting like a DEE DEE DEE".

Carlos Mencia Website: www.carlosmencia.com

Carlos Mencia - Comedy Central Site

 
     

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BBW Street Art Featuring

Artist JNESS

 

JNESS the Artist

 

 

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Artist JNESS

 

     Being from The Bronx, I am somewhat influenced by the history of New York City "Graff".

LINK: www.at149st.com/hpart1.html

 

     Today in NYC, Graff has many positive attributes in HIP HOP Culture, headlining in many art galleries worldwide, including the Smithsonian's Institute.

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     While searching online for "BBW ART History", I come across names such as, Peter Rubens (Born 1566), Fernando Botero (Born 1932), Pierre Renoir (Born 1841)

LINK: www.angelarose.com/Art/BBWart/

 

     The search made me wonder about the present biographies of FA Artist who are living right now....and on the rise in the Size Community. As a FA Tailor, I admire their skills. Most importantly, where will the history be documented for the street artists who pioneered BBW Art Work...for the streets? Online?

 

     So I had to seek out who I thought was The Best...The Greatest of Our Times...The One FA who did it better than the rest! That one Artist that caught my eye first...on some...next level...street shit! Two years ago... I'm at my friends house... an artist.. and I'm telling him about L.I.C. How I really need some hot Big Girl logo's so I can...have some fly BBW Art...I needed something.. off the hook! My friend is a lot younger than me, but he can draw his ass off!

 

     I knew he could give me the art I was looking for...but I had to give him some references...show him work of other BBW Artist...give ideas.